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if a woman i wasnt attracted to asked me out, i would say “thank you. i am flattered, but i don’t think it is a good idea.” or something to the like. I am not going to go out on a “pity date”.

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Cricri says:
February 9, 2011 at 3:24 pm
I’d really like to believe the men here saying women should do this or that, but experience taught me otherwise. When I was much younger, I used to want to be brave and progressive and ask men out but it backfired because what happened is that they put no effort in the dates because they knew I was interested. They would simply go through the little motions, get the sex and pull the fade. Maybe I was choosing them wrong, or I couldn’t read the signs, whatever it doesn’t matter in the end. Some have said around here that sex is like “pizza” so what men would turn it down? In these days where dates have become pretexts for some to just get laid, I don’t take chances with men. I will be nice, flirty, laugh at awful jokes ( and depending on the situation, shake the little boobs I have in your face ;P) but I won’t ask a guy out! Then, after all that, the guy might just not see that I’m interested or simply go with it because I “obviously want IT”, go figure! Sorry guys!

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Jay_D2 says:
February 9, 2011 at 1:41 pm